25 Self-Care Ideas for Guys
Self care isn't just for women. In fact, guys need to prioritise self-care just as much, if not even more as the ladies. Why? Let me explain.
So many men have this idea that the only way to succeed is to work your butt off, exercise to complete exhaustion, and do better and be better than every guy around you. They compare themselves with guys in their friendship circles, people in their office, strangers at the gym and go full bull to try to become top dog. Many don't even realise they're doing it.
Many men, and women, measure their success by how hard they work and how much they can acquire. This “no pain, no gain” attitude, as I recently learned, can have many negative effects on both your physical and mental health, and often leads to injuries, anxiety, depression and total body burn out.
One can develop feelings of emptiness, anxiety, and disconnection from their bodies, themselves and others.
Because taking care of yourself can often make you look "weak" or feminine, guys can often stop looking after themselves, and get in a rut of boring, repetitive and not very nutritious meals, wearing clothes they don't like or that are too small or too big, and generally 'let themselves go'.
This can trigger a downward spiral of low self confidence, alienating yourself from your friends, become depressed, and anxious.
Self-care is a great way to reverse this cycle of disconnection and worth making a priority because:
Your health gets better
Your mental health will improve
You become more present
You will decrease your stress levels and the negative impact of stress on your body
You will become more connected to your body and what it's telling you about your health
You will become more resilient
You will become more creative and perform better at work
You will sleep better
Your sex drive will increase
You will inspire others
In choosing your self-care ritual, it's important to find what feels good for you and your body, because self-care is a highly personal thing.
Here are some ideas to get your started. If you have an idea, schedule it in, and make it your priority to get it done.
Ladies if you know a male in your life that you know can do with a little TLC please encourage them to take some time out for themselves by suggesting any of the following ideas.
25 Self-Care Ideas for Guys
Get a massage
Go for a run or do a workout
Look after what you eat
Do a guided meditation
Clock in some quality time with your family
Read for pleasure
Treat yourself to a professional close shave
Learn to say no and not feel guilty
Take a long shower or bath
Go for a walk
Spend time in nature, go for a hike or hit the beach
Cook a nourishing and tasty meal for yourself
Update your wardrobe
Get a hair cut
Do some mindful breathing
Work in the garden
Create a new playlist
Book in a man date with your friends
Plan a boys trip away
Ask for help
Have some technology and screen free time
Get a facial